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I was recommended to Chris at decisive coaching over a year ago now and have only been to see him a handful of times but it is definitely the best thing I’ve done in a long time. Not only is Chris able to listen and advise.. he makes you see that these “problems” aren’t a problem. There is a solution to everything, it just takes the right mind set/approach. It is very intense at times (it’s ok he supplies tissues) but sometimes you have to go through these things to come out better. Thank you for your help & guidance!

Mia Williams


Thanks to chris at Decisive coaching for supporting me through the past/most important 4 months of my life after so many attempts of recovery from addiction.

Addiction has been a huge problem and has affected all areas of my life, health career & especially relationships where I was stuck in toxic patterns, afraid of being alone, forever finger pointing acting out the victim “it was always someone else’s fault”.

About 4mths ago things took a turn for the better when a friend recommended me to Decisive Coaching, fascinating it was learning and understanding the truth of my addictions on a much deeper level that made the process of recovery much more achievable.

If I can help others by writing this, that will make it even more worthwhile.

“What one thing would you pass on that might help someone beat addiction” was a question from Chris, firstly I would recommend reframing from seeing addiction as something to “beat” and instead just a set of coping strategies that we need to fully understand.

What really did it for me was the process of imagining my life in the future if I was to carry on the same path and how this will affect my family and friends. Thank you so much Chris for all your support. Recovery is a journey not a destination See you same time next month.


IBS Fibromyalgia Anxiety

From the very first moment i sat down in the hot seat to speak with Chris i felt the most comfortable than anyone i had sought help from before. Chris helped me understand that the diagnosis and treatment plan i had received from my doctor does not have to be the only way of treating my health problems, IBS Fibromyalgia Anxiety and back pain had become part of me to much of my life. UNTIL _The truth is that at first i found it hard to believe what Chris was teaching me, but soon after i took his advice and researched for myself why i had been experiencing the health issues i had, my problems took a turn for the better, i actually started healing myself by correcting areas of my life that were out of balance. Who'd have thought that the way we live our life in the finest detail determines the quality of our health. Quite amazing !! Thank you Chris X

Sue B

Amazing free and happy

are just the tip of the iceberg when explaining how my life is now compared to times gone by.

I have suffered in silence for many years trying a vast array of medication counselling and support all of which have helped me cope but left me stuck in a place with very little hope.

Who the Hell is Tony Robbins? that's what I thought when I had someone suggest I try something different__ a Coach, the best decision I made was hiring Chris Whalley & Decisive Coaching for helping me reclaim who I really am and live the rest of my life free from my emotional torment, Chris, what you do is priceless

I can't recommend Chris enough and will forever be grateful for his deep sincere "tough at times" truth & direction. ** I know, I needed it lol,,!

Thank you Chris you have helped me find my way back and more xx


Makes it all worthwhile

Mind blowing!

What more can I say?, well lots actually.

I have been in and out of therapy for the past 20 years leaving me feeling OK for the best part however living with that feeling of emptiness or something missing has taken its toll on my health and relationships Until I decided to get decisively coached by Chris

Long story short, although quite intense at time's (wanted to punch you lol)

My new favourite word today is Breakthrough Chris helped me unravel my past and understand my life today so I can have the happiness energy and the freedom I have always thought was possible.

Thank you with all my heart Chris. I hope this encourages more people to take the first step.


I came across Chris by chance on a health social media forum and we arranged to meet on zoom to chew the cud. I’d been feeling very reflective due to some unexpected twist and turns in life circumstances coupled with coming to the end of a personal year nine.  In short, I was experiencing some resistance and conflict around identity and fulfilment of life purpose and feeling uncertain, jaded, and disillusioned.

Chris was generous with his time, patient, understanding and straightforward. He also swore like a trooper reassuring me this was an essential and integral part of the transformation process! His cool coaching style is influenced largely by Tony Robbins and Cloe Madanes and this was a new experience for me, and one I shall surely remember. Chris was able to lead me to understand, unpick and appreciate the discomfort and turmoil and see the reflections I needed to heal and importantly how to strategize ways of reclaiming my joie de vivre and new shinier polished identity… and the best part is it only felt like a conversation.

After the call I noticed instantly how much better I felt. In the days that followed I processed further, and the journey took me deep into my reaction to my life’s circumstances. I gained wonderful insight unpicking patterns and a specific eureka moment epiphany changed the whole game for me. I can’t put into words the significance of this life-changing breakthrough, but what I can confidently say is if you’re stuck go to Chris, he is golden – his approach is brilliant and just like Heineken refreshes parts of the spirit other approaches can’t reach.

Jo Mason 25.08.22

Severe Depression.

My son was suffering from really bad depression and was in a bad way. 
After one telephone consultation with Chris for a good hour, my son has changed his old outlook of negative thinking and is in a much better place mentally and physically! 
Can’t believe how quick it worked for my son. 
He recommended a book in which my son read and is in the most positive place he has been in years.

Highly recommend Chris, my turn next aha, big thumbs up.
Thank you so much Chris

Melanie J Dane

Emotional & Financial Freedom


Chris is truly a very blessed soul who has helped me over the last year overcome setbacks and challenges both in my personal and professional life. As a result, I'm a more positive and open-minded indivdual with a brighter outlook on life. Some of the things I have overcome include the following:

Health challenges resolved
Great relationships with my family 
A much brighter financial future

Thanks Chris your a legend and I hope this is the beginning of a long lasting relationship


Shezhad Hanif

Health Relationship Freedom 

What can I say about Chris? I send him so many recommendations as I believe in his ability to 100% help those that are willing to change and want to empower themselves no matter what their issue, sometimes it's because their loved one needs change but won't seek it, Chris can work through one person to facilitate change within the external relationships they have as well as with themselves. If you are stuck, blocked, hurting or just need direction this is the best move you can make believe me! Pick up the phone & contact Chris.

Tracy Fance

WOW! New direction 

Just out of my 1st meeting with Chris and all I can say is WOW! We shared, laughed, learned and I know I came away with some new perspectives, tools and clarity on my own situation. Don't get me wrong, I had doubts and I have read a lot in this area of personal development, so I was blown away by the new stuff and the "down to earth," friendliness of this experience. If your thinking maybe... JUST DO IT. 
P.S. my wife bought this for me so, really this was a truly unexpected, pleasant surprise. 
Can't wait to chat with Chris again.

John Hyde

Relationship on target

"Chris has been brilliant, he’s helped me through a really tough time by helping me to see life from a completely different perspective and appreciate life so much more when we take responsibility.

I couldn’t recommend him highly enough, his delivery and sheer honesty is refreshing, his guidance is spot on and exactly what I needed when I didn’t know which way to turn.

If you’re struggling with something, don’t be afraid to get in touch with him, it’ll be the best decision you make"

Brendan Collins

Non Hodgkin Lymphoma

2016 I was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin lymphoma (a blood cancer)...........
At the end of January this year (2018), I was medically declared cancer free! Just saying thank you to Chris does not begin to convey the gratitude I feel. Chris most certainly turned my life around and I’m smiling again!
Pauline Rogers

I.B.S (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) & Fibromyalgia

IBS Fibromyalgia Anxiety and back pain had become part of me for much of my life. 
Chris helped me understand that the diagnosis and treatment plan i had received from my doctor does not have to be the only way of treating my health problems.

 i actually started healing myself by correcting areas of my life that were out of balance.
Who'd have thought that the way we live our life in the finest detail determines the quality of our health. Quite amazing !! Thank you Chris X
Susan B_______

I.B.S M.E & Fibromyalgia

"The only thing you'll regret is not reaching out sooner"

I was diagnosed with (M.E, Fibromyalgia, Chronic I.B.S Overweight, Various Addictions)

I was in a very chronic place and still on my journey of recovery, i am so grateful to Chris and Decisive Health program.  

S___ Bains

Nausea, vomiting, bloating, back and abdominal pain.

3 weeks on SYMPTOMS GONE ! And everything moving as it should be (if you know what I mean lol) I have more energy than iv ever had and feel amazing in body and mind what a clear out lol. Thank you so much for all your support in this!!

Kirsty Bax


Sitting at home last year, 2016, crying in pain from fybromyalgia and my son came in and send, "Mum, why don't you see my mate Chris, he's amazing". I watched Chris's post about fybromyalgia and I knew I had to give it a try. Someone was actually being positive about finding ways to heal without pills and anti depressants. I lost weight, I felt amazing and friends were noticing. I feel so lucky and blessed to have found Chris...he's one in a million. X

Christine Velvic

Fibromyalgia Obesity M.E

When I stumbled across Chris back in July 2015, I knew I needed something radical to happen for my health and life to improve let alone give me a chance to actually live again. 
Chris gave me the empowerment to take control of Me, and find the very best version of me again, we found my truth and filed away some old belief systems.

Freeing up my mind meant I could deal with what I needed to to get my health back. A few lifestyle changes meant energy, health restored and 9 stone weight loss.

I am forever grateful for the support and knowledge Chris provided to me. It literally has changed my life. I have gone from bed, walking stick and wheel chair user unable to work, to trained Personal Trainer, back in work, fit, healthy wife and mother again, with all the tools I need to continue to grow.

Thank you Chris x

Sam Dobson

Client Success
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